Wow, thank you for your detailed response! Yea, I have the Kester solder that everyone recommends. Thanks for linking me to the Aoyue desoldering station. I’m not quite there yet, but I think once I get more into actually building, tinkering, etc, I may want one and that one looks more affordable than the Hakko desoldering station.
I’ve been using a fan for the lead soldering, but I think the next thing I get will be something like this to actually remove fumes: https://smile.amazon.com/Hakko-FA400-04-Bench-ESD-Safe-Absorber/dp/B00FZPSEY4/ref=sr_1_9?keywords=lead+solder+fan&qid=1580388118&s=hi&sr=1-9